7 Daily Habits for Bettering Your Mental Health

Taking care of our mental health is crucial for overall well-being and happiness. Just as we engage in daily activities to maintain physical health, it's essential to develop habits that promote good mental health. In this blog post, we'll explore seven simple but effective tips for improving your mental well-being on a daily basis. By incorporating these habits into your routine, you can cultivate a positive mindset and lead a more fulfilling life.

1. Practice Mindfulness:

Start your day with mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or simply taking a few moments to focus on the present moment. Mindfulness helps calm the mind, reduces stress, and enhances self-awareness. It allows you to let go of negative thoughts and cultivate a positive mindset.

2. Establish Healthy Boundaries:

Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining good mental health. Learn to say "no" when necessary, and don't overcommit yourself. Recognize your limits and communicate them effectively. By establishing healthy boundaries, you can reduce stress, prevent burnout, and prioritize self-care.

3. Engage in Physical Exercise:

Regular physical exercise not only benefits your physical health but also has a profound impact on your mental well-being. Engaging in activities like walking, jogging, yoga, or dancing releases endorphins, which are natural mood boosters. Aim for at least 30 minutes of exercise daily to reduce stress, improve sleep quality, and boost your overall mood.

4. Connect with Others:

Human connection is vital for our mental health. Nurture your relationships by spending quality time with loved ones, friends, or participating in group activities. Engage in meaningful conversations, express your emotions, and seek support when needed. Building a strong support system can provide comfort, reduce feelings of isolation, and foster a sense of belonging.

5. Practice Self-Care:

Self-care is essential for maintaining a healthy mind. Dedicate time each day to engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Whether it's reading a book, taking a bath, practicing a hobby, or listening to music, make self-care a priority. Taking care of yourself enables you to recharge, reduce stress, and improve your overall mental well-being.

6. Prioritize Sleep:

A good night's sleep is crucial for mental health. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night. Establish a regular sleep schedule, create a soothing bedtime routine, and ensure your sleep environment is comfortable and conducive to rest. Sufficient sleep improves cognitive function, regulates mood, and enhances emotional resilience.

7. Practice Gratitude:

Cultivating an attitude of gratitude has a profound impact on mental health. Each day, take a few moments to reflect on the things you're grateful for. This practice helps shift your focus to the positive aspects of life, promotes optimism, and reduces stress. Consider keeping a gratitude journal or sharing your gratitude with others to enhance its effects.

Improving your mental health doesn't require drastic changes; it starts with small, daily habits that positively impact your overall well-being. By practicing mindfulness, setting boundaries, engaging in regular exercise, nurturing relationships, prioritizing self-care, getting sufficient sleep, and cultivating gratitude, you can transform your mental landscape and lead a more fulfilling life. Remember, taking care of your mental health is a continuous journey, and each small step counts towards a healthier, happier you.

Author: Crystin Nichols
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY By Creating Awareness & Self Compassion

Key Facts About Compassionate Awareness

What is it, why do we value it, and what are the benefits?

Compassionate Awareness is the integration of 4 things:

1 - Consciousness: a set of principles that support living a life of compassion, collaboration, courage, and authenticity. Showing-up in a way you intend to.

2 - Language: understanding how words contribute to connection or distance (to self or others).

3 - Communication Skills: knowing how to ask for what we want, how to hear others even if in disagreement, and how to move towards solutions that work for all.

4 - Means of Influence: sharing “power with others” rather than using “power over others”.

Compassion serves our desire to do 3 things:

1 - Increase our ability to live with choice, meaning, intention, and connection.

2 - Connect empathically with self and others to have more satisfying relationships.

3 - Sharing of resources so everyone is able to benefit.

Why do we value Compassionate Awareness?

Most of us could brush up on our skills to improve the quality of our relationship with ourselves and others, to deepen our sense of personal empowerment or simply help us communicate more effectively. Unfortunately, most of us have been taught to mix OBSERVATIONS with comparisons to compete, judge, demand and diagnose; to think and communicate in terms of what is “right“ and “wrong“.

This habitual way we THINK and REACT sabotages our intentions to get our needs met. We fail to communicate our actual need which further creates disconnect, misunderstanding, and frustration. And still worse, this can cause anger, suffering, and escalation. As this way of communicating escalates, this may lead to violence.

As a result, reactions from negative thoughts, even with the best of intentions, generate needless conflict.

On the flip-side, compassionate awareness helps us reach to the core need and discover what is alive and vital within us, and how all of our actions are based on human needs that we are seeking to meet. We learn to develop a vocabulary of FEELINGS and needs that helps us more clearly express what is happening internally in us, and understand what is going on in others, in real time.

When we understand and acknowledge our NEEDS, we develop a shared foundation for much more satisfying relationships.

Living Intentionally

The intention to connect with ourselves and others is one of the most important goals of practicing and living NVC. We live our lives from moment to moment, yet most of the time we are on autopilot, reacting out of habit rather than out of awareness and presence of mind. By creating a space for attention and respect in every moment, NVC helps create a pathway and a practice that is accessible and approachable. Studying and practicing NVC creates a foundation for learning about ourselves and our relationships in every moment, and helps us to remain focused on what is happening right here, right now.

Four Components of Compassionate Communication

Observation:

Observation without evaluation consists of noticing concrete things and actions around us. We learn to distinguish between judgment and what we sense in the present moment, and to simply observe what is there.

Feeling:

When we notice things around us, we inevitably experience varying emotions and physical sensations in each particular moment. Here, distinguishing feelings from thoughts is an essential step to the NVC process.

Needs:

All individuals have needs and values that sustain and enrich their lives. When those needs are met, we experience comfortable feelings, like happiness or peacefulness, and when they are not, we experience uncomfortable feelings, like frustration. Understanding that we, as well as those around us, have these needs is perhaps the most important step in learning to practice NVC and to live empathically.

Request:

To make clear and present requests is crucial to NVC’s -3- transformative mission. When we learn to request concrete actions that can be carried out in the present moment, we begin to find ways to cooperatively and creatively ensure that everyone’s needs are met.

Two Parts Empathy:

Receiving

from the heart creates a means to connect with others and share experiences in a truly life enriching way. Empathy goes beyond compassion, allowing us to put ourselves into another’s shoes to sense the same feelings and understand the same needs; in essence, being open and available to what is alive in others. It also gives us the means to remain present to and aware of our own needs and the needs of others even in extreme situations that are often difficult to handle.

Honesty:

Giving from the heart has its root in honesty. Honesty begins with truly understanding ourselves and our own needs, and being in tune with what is alive in us in the present moment. When we learn to give ourselves empathy, we can start to break down the barriers to communication that keep us from connecting with others.