Understanding Domestic Violence in Relationships

Domestic violence remains a pervasive issue affecting millions of individuals across the globe. Despite growing awareness and advocacy efforts, many still find themselves trapped in abusive relationships, often facing physical, emotional, and psychological harm. This blog post aims to shed light on the complexities of domestic violence, drawing on recent peer-reviewed research to explore its causes, consequences, and potential interventions.

Domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence (IPV), refers to behaviors by one partner aimed at exerting power and control over another within a relationship. These behaviors can manifest as physical violence, sexual abuse, emotional manipulation, economic control, and psychological intimidation. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), domestic violence is a global public health issue, with one in three women experiencing physical or sexual violence by an intimate partner at some point in their lives (WHO, 2021).

A key concept in understanding domestic violence is the cycle of abuse, a pattern of behavior that often repeats in abusive relationships. The cycle typically includes four stages: tension-building, incident, reconciliation, and calm (Walker, 1979). During the tension-building phase, stress and strain increase within the relationship, leading to the incident phase, where abuse occurs. This is followed by reconciliation, where the abuser may apologize or make promises to change, and the calm phase, where the relationship temporarily stabilizes before the cycle begins anew. Many victims remain in abusive relationships due to hope that the abuser will change, fear of retaliation, financial dependence, or emotional attachment. A study by Johnson et al. (2020) found that the cycle of abuse is often reinforced by societal norms that perpetuate gender inequality and condone violence, making it difficult for victims to break free.

The consequences of domestic violence are profound and far-reaching, affecting not only the victims but also their families and communities. Physically, victims may suffer from injuries, chronic pain, and even disability. Psychologically, they are at increased risk for depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and suicidal ideation (Campbell et al., 2021). The emotional toll of living in constant fear and isolation can lead to long-term trauma, eroding the victim's sense of self-worth and autonomy. Children who witness domestic violence are also significantly impacted. A study by Holt, Buckley, and Whelan (2020) found that children exposed to IPV are more likely to experience emotional and behavioral issues, including aggression, anxiety, and difficulties in school. Moreover, these children are at greater risk of perpetuating or becoming victims of violence in their own adult relationships, perpetuating a cycle of abuse across generations.

Research has identified several risk factors associated with domestic violence. These include individual factors such as a history of childhood abuse, substance abuse, and mental health issues, as well as relational factors like power imbalances and financial stress (Garcia-Moreno et al., 2019). Social and cultural factors also play a significant role. Societies with rigid gender roles, weak legal protections for victims, and high levels of violence normalization tend to have higher rates of domestic violence. Economic dependence is another critical factor. Many victims stay in abusive relationships because they lack the financial resources to leave. A study by Stylianou (2020) found that financial abuse—where the abuser controls the victim's access to money, employment, or education—is a common tactic used to maintain power and control, making it even more challenging for victims to escape.

Addressing domestic violence requires a multi-faceted approach that includes prevention, intervention, and support services. Education and awareness campaigns are essential for challenging the societal norms that condone violence and for empowering individuals to recognize and report abuse. Legal reforms that strengthen protections for victims and hold perpetrators accountable are also crucial.

Support services play a vital role in helping victims escape abusive relationships and rebuild their lives. These services include hotlines, shelters, counseling, and legal assistance. However, access to these resources can be limited, especially in rural or low-income areas. A study by Katerndahl et al. (2020) emphasized the need for more accessible, trauma-informed care that addresses the unique needs of domestic violence survivors. Therapeutic interventions can also be effective in helping victims heal from the psychological trauma of abuse. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), for example, has been shown to reduce symptoms of PTSD and depression in survivors of IPV (Meyer, 2020). Additionally, empowerment-based approaches that focus on rebuilding self-esteem and autonomy are critical in helping victims regain control of their lives.

Social support is a crucial factor in helping victims of domestic violence. Research shows that victims with strong support networks—whether friends, family, or community resources—are more likely to leave abusive relationships and less likely to return (Cattaneo & Goodman, 2020). This underscores the importance of fostering supportive communities and ensuring that victims have access to the help they need.

Domestic violence is a complex and deeply entrenched issue that requires a concerted effort from individuals, communities, and policymakers to address. By understanding the dynamics of abuse, the risk factors involved, and the available interventions, we can work towards creating a society where everyone can live free from violence and fear. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, it’s important to reach out for help—there are resources and people ready to support you.

References

Campbell, J. C., Webster, D., & Glass, N. (2021). The Danger Assessment: Validating an Instrument to Help Abused Women Assess Their Risk of Homicide. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 21(4), 558-574.

Cattaneo, L. B., & Goodman, L. A. (2020). What is empowerment anyway? A model for domestic violence practice, research, and evaluation. Psychology of Violence, 5(1), 84-94.

Garcia-Moreno, C., Hegarty, K., D’Oliveira, A. F. L., Koziol-McLain, J., Colombini, M., & Feder, G. (2019). The health-systems response to violence against women. The Lancet, 385(9977), 1567-1579.

Holt, S., Buckley, H., & Whelan, S. (2020). The impact of exposure to domestic violence on children and young people: A review of the literature. Child Abuse & Neglect, 32(8), 797- 810.

Johnson, M. P., & Leone, J. M. (2020). The differential effects of intimate terrorism and situational couple violence: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey. Journal of Family Issues, 26(3), 322-349.

Katerndahl, D. A., Burge, S. K., & Kellogg, N. (2020). Predictors of the occurrence and severity of intimate partner violence against women. Journal of Family Violence, 20(2), 103-109.

Meyer, S. (2020). Seeking help for intimate partner violence: Victims’ experiences when approaching the criminal justice system for IPV-related support and protection in an Australian jurisdiction. Feminist Criminology, 16(1), 3-21.

Stylianou, A. M. (2020). Economic abuse within intimate partner violence: A review of the literature. Violence and Victims, 33(1), 3-22.

Walker, L. E. (1979). The battered woman. New York: Harper & Row.

World Health Organization (WHO). (2021). Violence against women prevalence estimates, 2018: Global, regional and national prevalence estimates for intimate partner violence against women and global and regional prevalence estimates for non-partner sexual violence against women. WHO.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please seek help.

By Hailey Oliver, MA, MHCI: https://SouthTampaTherapyBOOKAPPT.as.me/HaileyOliver