SOUTH TAMPA THERAPY FREE RESOURCES BLOG
Tampa Virtual Counseling Telehealth: Online Counseling and Virtual Therapy for South Tampa, Florida
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT), a National Certified Counselor (NCC), and credentialed in several other evidence based approaches listed here. I work with adults, teens, couples, and families in South Tampa. I specialize in counseling individuals who struggle with relationship issues, anxiety, depression, grief, panic, self esteem, and stress. I teach couples how to increase intimacy, reduce conflict, communicate effectively, and build a stronger connection. I bring families together by managing conflict, and I help adolescents overcome social anxiety and low self-esteem issues.
Private Virtual Visits for Counseling and Therapy using Live Video ZOOM
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT), a National Certified Counselor (NCC), and credentialed in several other evidence based approaches listed here. I work with adults, teens, couples, and families in South Tampa. I specialize in counseling individuals who struggle with relationship issues, anxiety, depression, grief, panic, self esteem, and stress. I teach couples how to increase intimacy, reduce conflict, communicate effectively, and build a stronger connection. I bring families together by managing conflict, and I help adolescents overcome social anxiety and low self-esteem issues.
Virtual Visits Online or Over the Phone
While my office is in South Tampa, virtual visits allow you to attend therapy sessions when you are unable to come into the office throughout the ENTIRE STATE OF FLORIDA and I am also licensed in Maryland, North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia, Connecticut and growing. I offer live video counseling using a secure online virtual platform. I provide teletherapy sessions (a form of telemedicine and telemental health) to individuals via live two-way video sessions, and I offer couples counseling and family therapy via secure group video so each participant can have their own screen. If you would rather receive counseling or therapy over the phone, that is available as well – whatever makes you feel most comfortable.
Easy to Use on Any Device
Remote virtual therapy allows you to avoid the waiting room and commute without missing an appointment. Schedule your online counseling session by emailing me, calling, or texting (813) 240-3237 and my office will give you a link to easily log in to your secure video counseling session. The virtual platform works with iOS and Android smartphones and tablets as well as Mac and PC computers – all you need to do is find a private place with an internet connection and log in for your scheduled appointment.
Telehealth is an especially good option if:
• You seek Individual Counseling while maintaining comforts of home
• You seek Couples Counseling while one partner is traveling
• Your schedule makes it challenging to attend in-person sessions
• You want to eliminate commute time to Counseling Sessions
• You experience anxiety leaving your home or driving in Tampa
• Physical disabilities limit your ability to travel
• You frequently travel
• You live in Florida
Safe, Secure, and Private
I always respect your privacy and will maintain your confidentiality. The telehealth platform I use meets or exceeds all HIPAA and other legal and ethical guidelines regarding privacy. All sessions are end-to-end encrypted using AES-128, and no potentially sensitive or personally identifying data is stored. Your sessions are granted the same level of privacy as in-person sessions and will never be recorded without your written consent. Feel free to email me or call (813) 240-3237 to start on the path to happiness and a more fulfilling life. I am here to help.
Book a session with me here: https://SouthTampaTherapyBOOKAPPT.as.me/initialintake
Transform Your Relationship: Evidence-Based Couples Therapy in South Tampa
In the heart of South Tampa, evidence-based couples therapy is available to guide you towards a more harmonious partnership. By honing your communication skills and mastering conflict resolution, you can transform your relationship into one that thrives. Don't wait to take this important step towards a brighter future together. Reach out to a qualified couples therapist in South Tampa today and rediscover the love and connection you deserve.
Introduction
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, even the strongest relationships can face challenges. If you're seeking to enhance your connection, improve communication, and resolve conflicts, evidence-based couples therapy might be the beacon of hope you're looking for. In this blog post, we'll explore the benefits of evidence-based couples therapy, with a focus on communication and conflict resolution, right here in South Tampa.
Understanding Evidence-Based Couples Therapy
Evidence-based couples therapy is a scientifically validated approach that draws on proven techniques to help couples navigate the complexities of their relationship. It's not about guesswork; it's about using strategies that have been rigorously tested and shown to be effective.
Specializing in Communication
1. Active Listening: Effective communication begins with truly hearing and understanding your partner. Through evidence-based techniques, couples learn the art of active listening, ensuring both voices are heard.
2. Expressing Needs Clearly: Often, miscommunication arises from unclear expressions of needs. In therapy, couples learn to articulate their desires in a way that is constructive and comprehensible to their partner.
3. Non-Verbal Cues: Much of our communication happens without words. Evidence-based therapy helps couples become attuned to non-verbal cues, fostering a deeper level of understanding.
Conflict Resolution: A Vital Component
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. What matters most is how it's handled. Evidence-based couples therapy equips partners with essential conflict resolution skills:
1. Identifying Core Issues: Often, surface-level conflicts mask deeper, underlying issues. Therapy helps unearth these core concerns, allowing for more effective resolution.
2. Constructive Communication during Conflict: Instead of resorting to harmful patterns, couples learn how to communicate constructively even in the midst of disagreement.
3. Finding Common Ground: Evidence-based techniques guide couples towards finding solutions that are acceptable to both parties, strengthening the relationship in the process.
Couples Therapy in South Tampa: Your Path to Transformation
For couples seeking evidence-based therapy specializing in communication and conflict resolution, South Tampa is home to a wealth of experienced and dedicated professionals. With their expertise, you can embark on a journey towards a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Conclusion
In the heart of South Tampa, evidence-based couples therapy is available to guide you towards a more harmonious partnership. By honing your communication skills and mastering conflict resolution, you can transform your relationship into one that thrives. Don't wait to take this important step towards a brighter future together. Reach out to a qualified couples therapist in South Tampa today and rediscover the love and connection you deserve.
Preparing for the Climb: What to expect in your first therapy session
Congratulations on scheduling your first counseling appointment! If this is your first time in therapy, you may be wondering what it’s going to be like that first appointment. Even if it’s not your first venture into counseling, it’s helpful to know what to expect with your new counselor (me).
Congratulations on scheduling your first counseling appointment! If this is your first time in therapy, you may be wondering what it’s going to be like that first appointment. Even if it’s not your first venture into counseling, it’s helpful to know what to expect with your new counselor (me).
I like to think of undertaking therapy as similar to climbing a mountain. Just like the steps one takes to prepare for an intense climb, the therapy process starts with gathering information, taking stock of your equipment/tools, and making a plan. Using this metaphor, let’s talk about the first step in therapy: the intake appointment.
Step 1: Meet your climbing partner
Climbing a mountain is hard work. It helps to take a climbing partner with you – ideally someone who has climbed before and is dedicated to walking with you through the most challenging parts. The same is true with counseling. During your first session, I will introduce myself to you and go over a few important details about the counseling process.
A little bit about your climbing partner/therapist: Right now I am a Supervised Therapist at South Tampa Therapy, which means I am counseling under the supervision and licensure of Dr. Elizabeth Mahaney while I finish up my final 18 weeks of my Masters in Counseling program Northwestern University. (Previously, I spent 12 years working in corporate America.) My current education has qualified and prepared me to counsel individuals, couples, and families experiencing a variety of life challenges, and over the past year I have accumulated 1,000 hours of experience in clinical mental health settings. I take a collaborative, integrative, and holistic approach, which means I look at the whole person and pull in evidence-based tools from various counseling theories based on what we both believe will be most helpful for you. (Approaches I often use for individuals include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) including Exposure with Response Prevention (ERP), Narrative, Internal Family Systems, and Psychodynamic; for couples, I also use Gottman and Emotion-Focused Therapy.)
Step 2: Learn about the climb
A climber needs to be informed about the mountain they are climbing, including any risks, benefits, requirements, and special considerations. You should know the same at the outset of your counseling journey. During the first session, I will tell you what counseling is, what you can generally hope to accomplish, any risks, and what the process will entail. Counseling is a collaborative process aimed at helping clients achieve mental health and wellness. It takes work on the part of the therapist and the client. Together, we will identify goals, gain insight, work through challenges, and practice new skills. If you are here for couples counseling, we will develop insight into what is underlying any relationship problems and then work to heal wounds, resolve conflict, and improve communication.
Now, about the risks. While counseling is successful for many people, like any endeavor, there is not 100% certainty. It might not be the right time to climb the mountain, or I might not be the best climbing partner for you – and that’s ok if we find that out! I want the best for you. Also, talking about hard things can bring up difficult emotions – similar to training your muscles for a long climb, you may experience some emotional “soreness” along the way. That is why your counselor is here to train alongside you – so you’re not facing the journey alone!
Another important aspect of the therapy process is confidentiality and its limits. Confidentiality is of utmost importance to me, and I am also bound by law and my professional ethics to uphold it. Everything we talk about in session will stay in session. I may seek supervision from my supervisor (who is also bound by confidentiality) on aspects of your case to ensure I am providing the best possible care. There are only a few instances where I would be required by law to break confidentiality: if I believe you are going to harm yourself or another person, if there is suspected abuse of a child or vulnerable adult, or if my court records were to be subpoenaed (which is highly unlikely).
Beyond confidentiality, we will cover policies and communication expectations – things like what to do if we run into each other out of the therapy room, how to get in touch between sessions, and cancellation/rescheduling expectations. I highly encourage questions about anything – I want you to feel confident and comfortable as we begin the journey.
Step 3: Check equipment and readiness level
Embarking on a mountain climb without checking one’s equipment (what you bring with you) and readiness levels would not likely result in a successful outcome. My goal for counseling is to help you achieve your goals. And in order to do that, I need to get to know what you’re bringing with you in your emotional backpack! That’s why this first session will be more question-heavy than other sessions we will have together (where you will be doing most of the talking). I will ask you about your health, family history, and what symptoms you’re currently experiencing. Since we’re shaped by both nature (our genetic makeup) and nurture (family, community, experiences, and global events and messages), gathering information about these topics helps us get a sense of how these factors may be impacting you. Most importantly, I’ll ask what brings you to counseling now and what you’re hoping to get out of it. I may also administer one or more assessments that we can come back to over the course of treatment to check on progress.
Step 4: Map out the journey
During our first session, we’ll start to hone in on goals for our time together – you might think about it like determining which mountain (or mountains) we want to climb, how frequently it makes sense to train, and a goal for how quickly we can reach the top. Each person has unique goals. For instance, a goal may be to reduce the frequency, intensity, and duration of anxious thoughts and feelings. Perhaps it could be to find clarity on a difficult, stressful decision. Or maybe it could be to improve communication in a relationship, process through a trauma, grieve a loss, or increase self-esteem. It’s possible that the goals will start out more general and become more specific as we gain more clarity on symptomatology. As we dive deeper, they may also shift. We might even add additional goals along the way!
Goals are important because they provide direction for our work together. They also let us know if we’re on the right track or if we need to switch approaches. Finally, if we are successful during our time together, our goals will help inform when it’s time to begin winding down our sessions.
With our goals set, we will discuss how frequently we want to meet (I usually recommend weekly to start with) and set our next appointment time. I may also ask you if you are ok with taking part in “practice” (which I find is a more palatable word than “homework”) between the intake and the next session. This could be, for example, reading a brief article, tracking your thoughts and feelings, journaling, or trying out a new coping tool. We can both expect to leave the intake with an idea of where we’ll be headed in therapy as well as what we’ll focus on in the next session.
What to keep in mind when beginning counseling
Embarking on the counseling journey is a big decision – akin to standing in front of a tall mountain and making the decision to climb it. And the intake session is sort of like meeting your climbing partner for the first time, taking stock of your equipment, and mapping your route before the journey. It’s ok to feel a little nervous at this stage. It makes sense – talking about hard things and putting in the work is difficult! But know that as a counselor I am there with you, creating a nonjudgmental space to feel, process, and work through the most difficult parts of your experience. It’s so much easier to climb when you know you’re not doing it alone. And the view at the top? Well, it’s pretty spectacular.
Book with author of this blog post, Kaitlin Lowey, here: https://SouthTampaTherapyBOOKAPPT.as.me/KaitlinLowey